Surf has a select surf team that plays tournaments. There are several sport complexes that rent out fields or even arenas. Coaches keep it fun. Everyone tries to win, but it's kept casual. Designed more to play and develop than pressured winning and recruiting. I just see my kid smile a lot more at our extra venue than with the club team. She loves the club games, but she understands the gravity of it. I just know this alternative league would improve the talent even more. It could expand into a dominant competitive leauge to the other ecnl/ga leagues.
Just think about the environment we are in as soccer parents. Tryouts, game time, money, GAS, parking, uniforms, out of state travel, restaurants, $100 tournament sweatshirts, coach per diem, etc. and now add the time. I love the hell out of it, but to say it doesn't take over your life is a lie. Now, behave parent, don't yell at games. Don't get pissed at the ref, because he makes a bad call. Don't get mad, because your daughter is not playing. I just think I would be a much better soccer parent if there were an option with less commitment and less cost.
To think, we need to worry about inuries and burn out on top of all this as well???!! Keep it fun for you kids people or they might burn out. I'm far more worried about burning myself out! I'm amazed I lasted this long. If my daughter did not show me some serious talent and specific skills and athleticism, there is no way in hell I'd be doing this still and I love the sport. It's just hard to believe how trapped we become as parents. Then to see our kids get trapped to dominate one position rather than get to experiement everywhere on the field considering the time and money? I finally found my balance with an extra league and our club, so I may be on my road to recovery! Time will tell!
I'm sure I will miss the hell out of it when our time runs out though! LOL!