Soccer is a players game. Coaches, parents, trainers, friends, teammates can help players learn. The game teaches its self in different ways and there is no one size fits all, changing and adapting is one way to learn and you can do so from different styles, teams, formations, coaches, players, etc.
Nobody (clubs, coaches, officials, etc) that tries is "bad" per say for attempting to help. I'm sure there intentions are good for the most past, sometimes maybe the delivery could be improved, tacit, or the lesson plans but it's up to the student players to make the best of the situations and learn. Some need to do more homework others can uses tutoring while some don't need any of that no matter the teacher and score well on tests (games for example)
The whole the other team played kickball to win bit goes a bit too far sometimes IMO and both by kids would rather play procession and like that style much better. That being the case they have plays and strategies in their toolbox when to play more direct, with time running out for example they may setup a kick & run play to get a goal. Coach is not necessarily telling them this but they think about it naturally.
I remember when the kids where just starting out before the time when they had coaches, just playing with friends or indoor they loved the freedom of improvising, outdoor they loved kick and run indoor they passed and go more naturally without anybody telling them anything.
What's different nowadays? people are too focused on immediate results and forget to enjoy the journey , not about if you win some tournament or on the "top" teams its about learning and having fun along the way. The mountain of medals and trophies collecting dust are nice to look back on but the times kids spend doing something they love with passion no matter the score at the end of the day are what they remember the most like the times hanging out and laughing with with mates between practies, hotel stays, games, etc. Cherish the time with them while their young, before you know it there driving away.....