#10 has a throw in that is better than a corner kick!
G2010...how’s the season going 2019?
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Bravo Evelyn!!!! If your coach isn't reading please pass on or as parents insist on a very simple solution. We had a coach tell our group of well behaving parents a few years ago at the intro meeting that if there were issues on sidelines the coach would simply remove the player or restrict playing time until the parent got a grip. Your coach has the ultimate control, whether or not his daughter steps on the field, a very effective muzzle. No way your team would be performing at this level unless you had a bunch of other stellar players. Everyone reading this forum cringes when he insists his daughter is great and everyone else blew it. I was told your normal center back and goalie were heroic today. Let them shine, not fair for #2 but yank her until dad gets some self awareness. Never seen anything like it.
You know what you are right Evelyn, in fact you are always right. Your daughter is a baller no doubt about that and I love how she has improved and progressed through her hard work. I have nothing but great things to say about her and you should be very proud of the way she has is developing given that she's put in the work in and out of practice. I've been frustrated with the little things about the team that seem to get overlooked and not corrected for a very long time. It's probably Walter's fault for not enforcing the changes that need to be addressed and have been getting swept under the rug for a over a year now. The fact that he allows certain players to keep doing & playing a certain way and never addressing or talking to the parents about it is a big no no in my books. And I do realize that Fabi has outgrown the team and It's probably time for Fabi to move on from the team and be placed on the right team. I've always supported the team but I say it how it is and I'm not going to hide the things that have been getting overlooked for a long time. While Walter and I don't see eye to eye on everything I do respect he has done a marvelous job with their development. Win or lose, I say it how it is. The team has its strong points and its weaknesses and there is nothing wrong with that but when things are not addressed properly from the top and players are not corrected on the obvious things that need to be fixed from the top, it can become a problem. The Blues were the better team today and I congratulate and salute them for the way they played. Trust me If fab was on that team you wouldn't hear a bleep out of my mouth. The girls had a great game yesterday but unfortunately things didn't go their way today. But it's ok, they will grow and get better. But Fabi is ready now and if things get in her way I will need to do the right thing and put her in the right environment to continue her progress. I do realize it's probably time for Fabi to move on and go to a different team. I'm all for it and it will be the best thing for her continuous development and success. I know you you and I personally have had our differences. But trust me If I can get Fabi on the right team you won't hear a bleep out of my mouth. If she was playing for the Blues, SDSC or even the Eagles, I really wouldn't have to say or complain about anything. So please tell Walter so he can kick us out and the only reason why she is still with OLE is prob due to my wife. Cause trust me I can't stand you either. Your husband Roy is the man but you and I are like oil and water.
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She is a 2012 amazing little player
Please talk to Walter and let's get Fabi out of this team for next season. I'm in
SoccerFan6
SILVER ELITE
I was in La Jolla all weekend, and I can only take so much family time, so I went to catch a couple games, including the final. I’ve seen the Blues play a few times, but this is my first experience with Ole. A few observations from my perspective.
1. Ole goalkeeper had a GREAT game. Could have easily been 6 or 7 goals for Blues.
2. Luis, your DD is a very good player, but she is not the “goat” or a future member of the USWNT. if you put her on the Blues she is just another player.
3. From what I saw, #12 and #7 also good from Ole.
4.The 2012 girl can play...she was the true unicorn on the field.
1. Ole goalkeeper had a GREAT game. Could have easily been 6 or 7 goals for Blues.
2. Luis, your DD is a very good player, but she is not the “goat” or a future member of the USWNT. if you put her on the Blues she is just another player.
3. From what I saw, #12 and #7 also good from Ole.
4.The 2012 girl can play...she was the true unicorn on the field.
smellycleats77
BRONZE
Please stay far away from Orange County teams!
Not Going to your team.. NO THANKS.
Evelyn Gonzalez
BRONZE
Thank you! I won't comment on how things are handled or the decisions made, but I will say I am very outspoken about our team culture. There's only so much I can do other than be the voice for the rest of the parents. All of our girls are great players who have their strengths and are working on areas to develop. We're just happy they're competing against the best teams out there.
No doubt man she needs to play with players that are at her level. Trust me is all that I want for her. And you can't say at this age who's gonna be where or what. They all have a long road ahead of them. Nobody knows who's gonna be the next big player, can't even say that about OM yet either.
Evelyn Gonzalez
BRONZE
If there is something we can agree on is that you haven't been happy with the team for a long time. As parents, we have to do what we have to do to find the fit right. That's what Roy and I did...didn't like AYSO or our previous team. However, instead of trying to coach our coach or tell parents what to do with their kids, we decided to leave. We didn't burn any bridges; we simply parted ways. I mean this with all intention to help: we represent our kids. It doesn't matter how phenomenal a kid could be, a parent can sabotage a child's success with how he/she behaves. No doubt your daughter is a phenomenal and she's a sweetheart. However, have you thought about the reputation you've created for yourself on the team and on this forum may affect her? Have you considered if those top teams, that you claim you wouldn't say a word, would trust to be a part of their team culture? I wish your daughter nothing but the best. I have no doubt she'll succeed wherever she goes. Just keep in mind that your behavior can impact her opportunities. We'd hate to see her go, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
Chalklines
GOLD
@Luis Andres
It's always the women on every team Luis. It will never change no matter what sport or team your DD's involved with.
Evelyn Gonzalez
BRONZE
Sounds like a personal problem you wanting out but you need her to be kicked out?
Most men don’t take offense the way a mama bear does, unless your Vic. P. My kids have been around for some time and there’s always that mom/dad that are outspoken. It’s how you choose to deal with it. I personally ignore it, shake my head and move on. I don’t care what another parent on the team has to say about my kid. Let the coach drop her at tryouts. Luis doesn’t go to the games. This is his outlet to vent his frustrations, some commiserate, some think...Asshole, whatever, don’t read if you don’t like it. He thinks highly of his kid and compares...who care. It’s pure entertainment for most. I’m not saying I agree, just stop putting so much importance into what someone thinks of you and your kids.
First of all it's not worth arguing with you cause it's pointless. You can never be wrong and you can't lose so I've learned my lesson. I've never mentioned any players names and all I've done is given my analysis towards games. Position wise and where I saw where an improvement can be made and I've also mentioned the good things and what they are doing good. Sports talk...Do you watch Monday night football. Ahh probably not. As far as you though, you came in here and called out my daughter and me by name. And you don't worry about what other teams can think of me cause trust me there is no problem.
Evelyn Gonzalez
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I called out your daughter? You mean by complimenting her? I called you by your name that is next to your post? Well we agree again, no point in arguing with you because it's pointless.
Trust me I know and the best way to deal with her is to ignore her cause she will turn this thread into a soap opera.